10 Types Of Men Women Don’t Find Attractive

They say attractiveness resides on a subtle layer just below the surface of your skin but so does “not attractive."

I have written many articles on what women find attractive in men and how to become attractive to women but it is equally important to know what turns women off. So feel free to do some soul-searching, you just might be turning the women off without even knowing it.

1. The Naïve Romantic

You have this jaded idealized perception of women that is a result of limited personal experience and self-imposed ignorance. You are constantly on the look out for that “perfect" woman or throwing yourself at women who are obviously not into you or presenting some kind of idealized version of you that you think will meet her notion of “ideal" man -and no one is buying. For some reason most women prefer men with a more realistic perception and a little bit more experience with the opposite sex – and they can tell within the first few seconds of meeting you.

2. The Need-To-Know Addict

You are constantly trying to find out what women want, why women do this, why they react like this, why they say this and why they do that. You are so obsessed with trying to figure out women that if there was a door marked “Hot Women" and a door marked “Lecture About Hot Women" you’d line up for the lecture. And even when you meet women instead of engaging them and having a real conversation you start asking them “What do women really want?", “Why women like bad boys?" or “why do women shave their legs?". Women look at you like “do I look like a dating coach to you?"

3. The Superficial Air- Head

You are obsessed with the physical and phony aspects of a woman and reject potential relationships with good women for sadly shallow reasons like not big enough boobs, not bootilicious enough, not long enough legs or hair etc. You move from big boobs to bigger boob or smaller butt to a bigger one with no real and meaningful emotional connection with the women you meet or have a relationship with.

4. The Sexually Invisible-Man

If sexual energy were measured in terms of light, you are generating at the level of a 20watt bulb. You may have the looks, the clothes, the car and even the job and money but that’s it - no sexual vibes coming from you. Women walk past you into the arms of the next jerk who is nowhere as good looking, educated or “sensitive" as you are. You are just not there – nonexistent sexually.

5. The Wet Blanket

You see yourself as a professional, business person, a politician, an activist, a teacher, a doctor, a parent, etc., but not as a sexual professional, sexual politician, sexual doctor, or even a sexual parent. You are so paralyzed internally by the pervasive anxiety of putting the “right" front that your interactions with women are like boardroom meetings they’d rather avoid. Your “businesslike" persona comes across as uptight and not much fun to be around.

6. The Sexual Adolescent

You confuse everything with sex and only see women as suppliers of sex. Your interactions with women have only one goal – “what can I get in exchange for sex". And when your sexual needs are not met, you react with the emotional tendencies you learned in childhood and never outgrew—sulking, withdrawal, violence, manipulation, nagging, neediness, clinginess, etc. which turns the women off.